Showing posts with label what is an arab. Show all posts
Showing posts with label what is an arab. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

Introspection



Life after TedxDubai...
The event was extraordinary. Though none of the speakers were briefed on what to say, there was a recurring theme of: Introspection, Positivity, Dreaming, and Persistence. To start with Introspection, I thought I'd look into myself, to understand myself better so I can picture my future in the best, most realistic way.

Well, that was a can of worms!

You see, I, like many modern Arab women, am a big bunch of confetti. Modern Arab women may know who they are, know their values, but when defining them, it's a collection of many contradictions. Let me explain....

Residence...I have lived in 3 continents. One was European, the other in the Middle East, the third in North America. I know, I know, typical Arab. And in true Arab style, our family has moved for career, education, economic and political stability, so we ended up being a mix of all the places we lived in and all the travels we've made. I have very strong patriotism to where I'm from, though I've never lived there. I love the country I'm residing in now, and it's truly, completely, undoubtedly my home. As for the European and North American cities I've lived in, transit. Can't possibly be home, even though I was born in one of them.

Sunday, September 6, 2009

What is an Arab?



I make a big fuss out of tea, therefore I'm Arabic?!

Let's take a step back...I remember back in uni, I joined the Arab Student Association. In their intro, they said that they would organize traditional Arabic things like going out to have shisha and play cards. I sat there and thought "well if you don't do both, are you a REAL Arab?"

How is one an Arab?
Is it by being born in an Arabic country - didn't do that one
Is it speaking the language? - it can't be, otherwise I'd be English/French
Is it loving meat - ahhh meat
Is it living with your parents till u get married - Italians & Indians do that too
Is it by being hospitable and generous - humanity makes anyone kind & true
Is it talking with your hands, laughing out loud, having an obscene number of relatives, and regularly knocking on wood to rid yourself of the "evil eye"? - helloooo Greeks!